I am a single mother of 3 girls with several problems in my life. I have not been able to provide for my children for the last few years and I feel absolutely terrible for this. For nthe last 7 years I have been in a relationship that has been a benefactor for me and the girls. He has helped me provide for them in every way and some how I still have bad feelings about his attitude and demeanor. He has a child outside of the relationship and he spoils her to the core, when she came in the picture it created another problem because she has no respect for me and my kids, eventhough she was only 5 at the time she still showed nothing. I have dealt with several things with this little girl alone and now I am concerned on where this relationship is going with her being disrespectful and just plain out mean for no reson. When she does this he never scolds her in any way. Now that she is 8 her attitude has gotten worse and she feels as if she can yell, talk back, roll her eyes at you, and ignore you and she can still have her way. I have told my boyfriend several times that I refuse to deal with her if she behaves like this but he continues to do nothing about it. Would I be wrong to start a military boot camp just for her to show her that I am not putting up with the way she acts?