Being a single mother of 3

After years of being with the same guy it is kind of hard dating again. Especially when you were head over heels in love with him! I would not consider it to be appropriate for me to catch feelings for another man because I am still in love with the previous one. To stay true to myself I took six months to think about stepping out and going on a date. I have been approached by all types of guys and none of them were my type. First off, if you broke and I am broke the only thing we can do is be broke together because you not looking for a job and I will play broke till the wheels fall off! I am not taking care of a grown ass man who is well and able enough to do for himself. Secondly, I refuse to deal with your drug,drinking,or pill popping habits. I understand that there may be something deeper causing these habits but I am not a psychiatrist. One person can not help another if they are not willing to help themselves. Granted us as humans have no room to judge another but we all have choices. I am a individual  who loves to make her own choices or decisions abduction I refuse to puck up a man who just might be a burden or try to hold me back. Having a strong core allows me to weed out who is good enough to get my time or company.

Making major moves

I had the opportunity to finally get my own home in another state. I was in a relationship at the time so this was supposed be a family move. My so called boyfriend decided at the last minute that he was not gonna come without telling me. He did not help me get there even though he had transportation because he did not want to take a day off. So i got on a bus with a one way ticket, no money, no place to stay and i made the best of it. Now that i am in my home and not with him he claims to miss me, love me and he never showed either emotion when i was there. So do i let my heart get cold towards him or should i let him know what he has done and continue to work on it?

HARD TIMES AND HAPPINESS
     
        These are the most hard days I have lived in my life. As a single mother of three and paying child support for one I am unable to find employment. Making sure my kids have everything they need and getting to their doctor's appointments are a task. I have been unemployed for the last three years and constantly searching.  Taking care of myself and my kids have been hard without a income, so I started going into business for myself. I have started putting my skills to use by becoming a promoter, but first I have to prove myself to the 101.1 the fam family and the other two artist I promote. I am one that really believes in order for someone to trust you with certain things you have to prove yourself trust worthy. I spend just about majority of my day promoting and the rest is with my family. I have yet to make any money doing so because I do not have anyone who is financially set to pay a promoter. This makes it even harder to keep doing what I have been blessed with. I like to take my talents and put them to use because god does not give you talents for you to settle. It takes hard work to be happy and successful. I plan to put that work in no matter how hard I have to work. I have no space to play around because I am currently in arrears with my child support. I cant be taken away form my children they are my happiness. On that note I need someone in the state of Virginia to help me find employment and if you are not in the state of Virginia Traveling is not an issue. I have medical assisting knowledge, construction Knowledge, computer knowledge, etc. I am also a fast learner. If you are a person with a kind heart and reading this but have no way personally of helping me pass this on to someone who you think can help with me find employment. Loyalty, honesty, and trust is hard to find and I am putting it out there because you never know who is reading your blog. Have faith in what you do and all your dreams will come true!!!!!!!!!

I am a single mother of 3 girls with several problems in my life. I have not been able to provide for my children for the last few years and I feel absolutely terrible for this. For nthe last 7 years I have been in a relationship that has been a benefactor for me and the girls. He has helped me provide for them in every way and some how I still have bad feelings about his attitude and demeanor. He has a child outside of the relationship and he spoils her to the core, when she came in the picture it created another problem because she has no respect for me and my kids, eventhough she was only 5 at the time she still showed nothing. I have dealt with several things with this little girl alone and now I am concerned on where this relationship is going with her being disrespectful and just plain out mean for no reson. When she does this he never scolds her in any way. Now that she is 8 her attitude has gotten worse and she feels as if she can yell, talk back, roll her eyes at you, and ignore you and she can still have her way. I have told my boyfriend several times that I refuse to deal with her if she behaves like this but he continues to do nothing about it. Would I be wrong to start a military boot camp just for her to show her that I am not putting up with the way she acts?